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Curiosity Opens The Door To Communication...
Curiosity opens the door to communication! Here's a quick tip for a quick win with your parenting>>> Next time you feel yourself starting...

Kathy Whitham
Jul 1, 20231 min read


Building Transition Bridges - 5 Steps
Have you noticed how transitions disrupt peace at home? Think about the times it's most challenging to keep your patience, or when you...

Kathy Whitham
Jun 2, 20222 min read


Peace At Home Through Logistics
Procedural, structural logistics can make such a difference! Jason was excited to be making the connection between what he knows as a...

Kathy Whitham
May 5, 20222 min read
You've Got This!
It's time to expect transition behaviors! And here's what I mean: • School’s about to start (or has started). • That’s a major...

Kathy Whitham
Aug 11, 20212 min read


Helping Your Child Feel Heard - Aka Behavior is Communication
Today I want to share something to help you be the even better parent you are wanting to be. How do I know you want that? Because you’re...

Kathy Whitham
Jul 9, 20212 min read


Why won’t my child behave at home?? They seem able to behave at school!!
I want to connect with you today to talk about a question that came up at office hours today. “Why can my 5 year old behave really well...

Kathy Whitham
Jun 15, 20212 min read
5 Key Strategies for Peace At Home
How to respond rather than react to your child's difficult behavior and big emotions... Do you find yourself at a loss when it comes to...

Kathy Whitham
Mar 16, 20213 min read
Let's Talk About Remote Learning!
If you need permission to let go of the guilt, stigma, societal pressures and feelings around failure, when it comes to remote learning,...

Kathy Whitham
Feb 2, 20212 min read


Unhooking From Daily Power Struggles
Unhooking From Daily Power Struggles You know how we can end up being the parent we never planned to be when we react to our child more...

Kathy Whitham
Nov 11, 20202 min read
Anchoring vs. Walking On Eggshells
Do you find yourself walking on eggshells around your kiddo, to avoid the fight, power struggle or rejection that can come out of nowhere...

Kathy Whitham
Aug 6, 20202 min read
Handling Negative Attention-Seeking Behaviors
Whether it’s by pushing your buttons, hooking you into a power struggle or ignoring you so you have to repeat yourself 20 times, your...

Kathy Whitham
Jul 8, 20202 min read
Anxiety, Predictability & ADHD
With school over and summer ahead, routines that may have finally found a rhythm during this time of sheltering at home are now disrupted...

Kathy Whitham
Jun 24, 20202 min read


How Your Child or Teen's Behavior Is Like An Iceberg!
Today I want to talk to you about how picturing an iceberg can help you feel calmer in the face of frustrating and unwanted behaviors and...

Kathy Whitham
Jun 11, 20201 min read


Tired Of Hearing, "NO!?"
Does it seem like every time you ask your child to do something like, "Get dressed," "Come to dinner," "Pick up your clothes," or "Leave...

Kathy Whitham
May 7, 20202 min read
How Sips of Self-Care Can Help You Get Through the Day Without Losing It!"
It’s so hard trying to keep them entertained all day without losing my s*tuff! I need some deep coping skills… Can you relate to that...

Kathy Whitham
Apr 7, 20202 min read
Is Your Child Regressing?
I was fortunate to be visiting my daughter and grandson two weeks ago when schools closed and they were both suddenly sheltering in...

Kathy Whitham
Apr 2, 20202 min read
How To Protect Your Child From Catching Fear
With all that’s going on in the world these days, there’s a palpable increase in stress all around us. Our primitive brains can’t help...

Kathy Whitham
Mar 10, 20202 min read
The Difficulty of Disappointment
For weeks, Lily had poured her heart and soul into running for 1st grade class representative in her new school. She wanted it so badly! ...

Kathy Whitham
Feb 27, 20202 min read


3 Essential Strategies to Be Their Anchor, Not the Advice Monster!
Imagine your child is like a boat on the waves. Sometimes they float gently, but often your child is tossed by the waves or even caught in a raging storm! Rather than jumping in the boat, and getting tossed around with your child, a parent-centric approach invites you to be the anchor - tethering your child, creating safety and putting you in the best position to help them. You might ask, How the heck do I anchor myself when a storm is raging? The first thing I want you to k

Kathy Whitham
Feb 13, 20202 min read
How Do I Respond to Emotional Age?
It’s so easy to just react out loud as our buttons get pushed, which can make the situation a lot worse for everyone. It’s hard to...

Kathy Whitham
Jan 15, 20203 min read
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