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The More I Yell at My Kid, The Less They Listen!
If you know anything about me, you know that I love understanding how the brain works. I find it a great relief when I understand the...

Kathy Whitham
Nov 11, 20242 min read
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When Your Kid Doesn’t Get Their Way!
When your kid doesn’t get what they want, all hell can break loose! Their behavior can run the gamut from whining to throwing and...

Kathy Whitham
Oct 31, 20242 min read
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How to Maintain Loving Connection in the Face of Your Child's Hurtful Behavior
You know how your child's words and actions can be hurtful? I'm sure you do! The things they sometimes say can feel like a personal...

Kathy Whitham
Sep 18, 20242 min read
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How to Listen So Your Kid Talks To You...
The most common frustration I hear from parents and caregivers is “They won’t listen!” I feel you!! It can be so hard to listen when what...

Kathy Whitham
Jan 22, 20242 min read
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Are You Talking to the Wall?
You know how in the heat of the moment, you might as well be talking to the wall? Here’s the thing. Everyone has to calm down first...

Kathy Whitham
Jul 1, 20231 min read
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To Get Through to Your Child or Teen, Follow Emotional Age instead of Supposed To's.
Today I'm going to talk about an important strategy for getting through to your child or teen. Yes, it works for all ages. It's to let...

Kathy Whitham
May 1, 20233 min read
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Helping Your Child Feel Heard - Aka Behavior is Communication
Today I want to share something to help you be the even better parent you are wanting to be. How do I know you want that? Because you’re...

Kathy Whitham
Jul 9, 20212 min read
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Bad Behavior - SOS or Attack?
What if your child’s bad behavior is their best attempt to tell you what they need? If that’s true, then the way you respond has the...

Kathy Whitham
Feb 23, 20212 min read
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A No-Yell™ Approach When Your Kid Says, "No!"
Sometimes feelings are messy! They go outside the lines, spill on the floor or splatter on your clothes. Sometimes they’re not nice. Was...

Kathy Whitham
Oct 16, 20203 min read
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How Do I Get My Teen To Listen?
Self-Regulation Is Your Best Parenting Tool! When it comes to not listening, teenagers and three year olds - AKA three-nagers - have a...

Kathy Whitham
Oct 24, 20192 min read
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You're Not Listening!
The crowded aisle was packed with people, shopping carts and boxes being unloaded, not to mention shelves at a child's eye level full of...

Kathy Whitham
Sep 26, 20192 min read
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Let's Talk About Defiance
Your 15 year old tells you he did his homework when he didn’t. Your 8 year old starts yelling at you when you tell them it’s time to get...

Kathy Whitham
Dec 12, 20182 min read
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When They Won’t Listen - Try This!
Today I want to talk about how hard it is when your kiddo won’t listen to you, especially when you’re exhausted and at the end of your...

Kathy Whitham
Aug 30, 20181 min read
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